Objectives and Golden Threads: The key values behind our work.

Dialogue Roles: Description of the roles of speaker, listener, and witnesses

NEWExercises used during the Love and Relationships day at the Pendle Hill Young Adult Workshop “Continuing Revolution – Building Intentional Lives” (June 2018)


Inventory–common areas of conflict.  Simple guidance for couples to enter into a dialogue about areas that most frequently cause conflict in partner relationships — money, time, family, sex, and mess.


CE Growth Plan  (PDF) : A useful tool for setting goals as individuals and as a couple. Set up as a three-month growth plan, but can easily be modified.

Sharing Our Spiritual Vocabularies: An exercise to learn more about the words you and your partner are comfortable and uncomfortable with (shared at the 2015 Leader Training)

“GLAD” Activity :  Mindfulness activity for couples (from Tom & Sharon Baring)

6 Critical Life Messages : an activity for couples (from Tom & Sharon Baring)

Couples Potential Inventory FCE: Inventory of the strengths you have as couple.

Five Things Exercise-FCE: List is for you to share five things of your choice with your partner, taking turns.

Five Fingers Guide: Visual aid to help you keep track of five key elements during dialogue.

Guidelines for Couples: Guidelines for couples during dialogues in ongoing groups.

Poem: Marriage, Two worlds together: Poems for couples.

Relationship Inventory: General inventory of a relationship.

Interviewing Your Partner: An exercise to know your partner better.

Notes for Dialogue Self Assessment: Queries for listening, dialogue and witness.

Privacy Transparency Boundaries: Talking about privacy, transparency, boundaries with your couple.


Expresando Amor: Ejercio sobre amar y sentirse amado.

Inventario de la relación: ejercicio sobre los aspectos de la relación de pareja

Introducción al diálogo: los diferentes roles del diálogo: el que escucha, el que habla, los testigos.

LA MANO: diagrama que guía el diálogo.

Reflexiones para diálogo: pautas para mejorar el ejercicio de dialogar.

Hilos Dorados: claves en una relación  de pareja saludable y duradera.

Directrices para parejas: pautas para el trabajo en pareja.

Objetivos: objetivos en el diálogo de parejas.